Mediation Services in Ashburn, VA

Mediation provides a private, cooperative alternative to courtroom litigation. With the help of a neutral mediator, families can resolve disputes efficiently, respectfully, and on their own terms.

What Is Mediation?

Mediation is a voluntary process where a neutral mediator helps parties discuss issues, share information, and explore solutions. The mediator does not decide for the parties but guides them toward mutually acceptable agreements.

Attorney Li-Shann Durst focuses on resolving family law issues through mediation because it is often more responsive to families’ needs than litigation. Mediation promotes better communication, reduces conflict, and helps families make informed decisions.

Family Law Matters That Can Be Mediated

Almost any family law dispute can be mediated, including:

  • Custody and parenting time

  • Child support

  • Spousal support

  • Division of assets and debts

  • Property settlement agreements

  • Disputes involving grandparents or extended family

⚠️ Note: Mediation is not recommended in cases involving domestic violence or abuse.

The Mediation Process

  • Mediation Agreement

    Both parties sign to begin the process.

  • Ground Rules

    The mediator explains the process and role.

  • Sessions

    Parties present issues, review documents, and work through an agenda.

  • Resolution

    Agreements are written into a marital or property settlement agreement.

  • Legal Review (optional)

    Parties may submit agreements for legal review before finalizing.

  • Why Mediation Works

    Private & confidential – sensitive matters stay out of public court records.

    Empowers both parties – couples make their own decisions instead of a judge.

    Cost-effective & efficient – often less expensive and faster than litigation.

    Encourages respectful communication – promotes cooperation and healthier co-parenting.

    Mediation is most effective when both parties can speak openly, disclose financial information honestly, and negotiate from relatively equal positions.

  • Benefits of Choosing an Attorney-Mediator

    Legal insight without advocacy – understands Virginia law but remains neutral.

    Efficient, informed guidance – highlights legal considerations during negotiation.

    Reduces risk of unenforceable agreements – produces settlement agreements more likely to be approved by the court.

    Streamlined process for uncontested divorce – helps couples move from mediation to final paperwork more smoothly.

Frequently Asked Questions

Common questions about Mediation in Virginia

  • Yes. Agreements reached in mediation can be drafted into legally enforceable settlement agreements and approved by the court.

  • Mediation involves one neutral mediator helping both parties. Collaborative law involves each spouse having their own attorney and potentially a team of professionals.

  • If no agreement is reached, parties may proceed to litigation. Discussions in mediation remain confidential and generally cannot be used in court.

Related Services

Additional family law services that may be relevant to your situation

  • Child Support

    Ensuring fair financial support arrangements for your children's needs.

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  • Divorce & Separation

    Compassionate guidance through the divorce process with dignity preserved.

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  • Collaborative Divorce

    Work together to reach agreements outside of court, maintaining dignity.

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Considering Mediation for Your Family Law Matter?

Schedule a consultation today to learn how mediation can help you resolve issues respectfully, cost-effectively, and on your own terms.