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At the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, we focus on resolving issues with compassion and efficiency, always prioritizing solutions that serve your family’s best interests. Attorney Li-Shann Durst emphasizes alternative dispute resolution methods such as collaborative law, mediation, and negotiation to minimize conflict and avoid costly courtroom battles whenever possible. Preserved relationships – respectful resolutions that support co-parenting. Child-centered outcomes – protecting children from conflict and prioritizing their well-being. Confidentiality – keeping family matters private and out of public records. 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Virginia law outlines clear guidelines for calculating child support, but the process can still feel overwhelming. Our office helps parents understand their rights and obligations while working toward solutions that prioritize children’s well-being. Calculated by statute – Virginia Code § 20-108.2 sets guidelines based on parents’ gross incomes, number of children, and certain expenses Covers essential needs – Housing, food, clothing, education, and medical care—not luxury or discretionary items. Custody impacts the amount – Shared custody (90+ overnights with each parent) changes the calculation. Modifiable if circumstances change – Support can be adjusted if income, custody, or the child’s needs change. 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These agreements can cover property division, debts, spousal support, child custody, parenting time, and more. At the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, we draft agreements that are fair, thorough, and likely to be approved by the court, ensuring you don’t overlook issues that could cause future disputes.. Defines all key terms of divorce – property, debts, support, and parenting responsibilities. Custom-tailored to your family’s needs – including homeownership, retirement accounts, education funds, and even pet custody. Encourages amicable resolution – avoids costly litigation and promotes cooperation. Supports mediation and collaboration – ideal for couples using negotiation or alternative dispute resolution. 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After divorce or separation, the court may award spousal support—not as punishment, but to promote fairness and reduce hardship for the financially disadvantaged spouse. Spousal support can take different forms depending on the circumstances, and our office ensures agreements are structured clearly, with your long-term financial well-being in mind. Promotes financial fairness – ensures neither spouse is left at a significant disadvantage. Temporary or ongoing – support may be rehabilitative (short-term) or long-term depending on the case. Modifiable or fixed by agreement – spouses can determine if future changes allow modifications. Tax considerations – for divorces finalized after 2018, support is not tax-deductible for the payer or taxable for the recipient. https://www.ldurstlaw.com/property-division daily 0.75 2025-11-06 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/45054ebe-0f34-4a81-8c04-74b4d8eca4b2/message-circle+1.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/8a96a1aa-55c9-4c5c-8f78-4a986f9a0ac9/file-text+1.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/165c769b-e183-4547-81c7-d9e0fadf37b8/handshake+1.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/34ddf99f-bee1-4568-a4e4-f5771297dec1/gavel+1.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/4a114ca4-62c6-480a-9693-1e1ccbeb32a9/heart+1.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/9f1b4768-2840-4575-9168-e4ecc01afd3d/users-round+1.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/fea09f3b-5f87-46eb-b15b-711e569c80d1/scale+1.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ec321c2af33de48734cc929/1618497259178-6XJGK9GR6YAVBQL5L519/20140301_Trade-151_012-2.jpg Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ec321c2af33de48734cc929/1607694583486-2PQT0LQ193RL7MCB6DX4/20140228_Trade+151_0046.jpg Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5ec321c2af33de48734cc929/1607694644871-IC85FNH781UNZSZEGHDR/Aro+Ha_0428.jpg Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/b1090339-10c0-434b-b994-896c72daad19/child_custody.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/f9354053-c901-4162-b87d-ffa4c5b49959/homepage_services4.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/7615bdfc-be07-4643-bbbb-4e3c6ebab313/property_division.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/acb3da20-99da-46b2-8d5c-7f4ac7427051/homepage_services.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/9c77464a-4d36-4aba-9862-5a645d42492a/homepage_services2.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/4ff3d4bf-bdeb-4de0-ab78-de38e3057c33/pexels-fernanda-de-freitas-1324064735-26448071.jpg Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/2d4d51d4-03b4-4aa2-ae39-c5f74777dd8b/homepage_services3.png Property Division https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/9497b16e-4021-4e09-8a74-39b634593efd/Wedding+ring+on+pen%2C+on+banknotes+background..png Property Division Understanding Property Division in Virginia In a Virginia divorce, the court classifies property as marital, separate, or part marital/separate. Only marital property—typically assets and debts acquired during the marriage—is subject to division. The court considers many factors, including each spouse’s monetary and non-monetary contributions to the family and the acquisition and care of assets. Our office ensures your property interests are accurately classified, valued, and fairly represented. Equitable does not mean equal – the goal is fairness, not a 50/50 split. Marital property – assets acquired during the marriage are divisible. Separate property – inheritances and gifts generally remain with the original owner, unless co-mingled. 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Whether contested or uncontested, couples must resolve issues such as property division, spousal support, child custody, parenting time, and child support. At the Law Office of Li-Shann Durst, we handle all aspects of divorce, from negotiation, mediation, and collaborative law to courtroom representation if necessary. Our focus is always on protecting your rights while working toward fair and sustainable resolutions. Grounds for divorce – Virginia allows both fault-based and no-fault divorces (after required separation periods). Property division – marital assets and debts must be addressed, including homes, retirement accounts, and bank accounts. Support obligations – spousal and child support may be determined based on income, custody, and family needs. Court involvement – if couples cannot reach agreement, unresolved issues are decided by the court before the divorce is finalized. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/919ebc70-ad91-4f64-b80e-7c67a097a8fb/skeptical-diverse-hr-managers-interviewing-female-applicant-bad-first-impression.jpg Divorce & Separation Separation in Virginia Unlike some states, Virginia does not grant a formal legal status of “separated.” Instead, couples are considered separated when they: Live physically apart, and At least one spouse has the intent to end the marriage and communicates that intent. Separation agreements (also called marital settlement agreements or property settlement agreements) are commonly used to define rights, interests, and obligations while spouses live apart. These agreements can address custody, parenting time, support, and property division. Although separation agreements create structure and reduce conflict, they do not make a couple “legally separated.” Instead, they serve as a framework during the separation period and may later be incorporated into a divorce decree. https://www.ldurstlaw.com/collaborative-law daily 0.75 2025-11-06 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/b1090339-10c0-434b-b994-896c72daad19/child_custody.png Collaborative Law https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/f9354053-c901-4162-b87d-ffa4c5b49959/homepage_services4.png Collaborative Law https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/7615bdfc-be07-4643-bbbb-4e3c6ebab313/property_division.png Collaborative Law https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/acb3da20-99da-46b2-8d5c-7f4ac7427051/homepage_services.png Collaborative Law https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/9c77464a-4d36-4aba-9862-5a645d42492a/homepage_services2.png Collaborative Law https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/4ff3d4bf-bdeb-4de0-ab78-de38e3057c33/pexels-fernanda-de-freitas-1324064735-26448071.jpg Collaborative Law https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/2d4d51d4-03b4-4aa2-ae39-c5f74777dd8b/homepage_services3.png Collaborative Law https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/ca6bc8ad-3036-4d41-8851-8fdf16b0a7a7/property+division.png Collaborative Law What Is Collaborative Divorce? A collaborative divorce allows spouses to resolve legal, financial, and parenting issues outside of court. Each party is represented by their own attorney, and the process may include additional professionals—such as financial specialists, child specialists, divorce coaches, or therapists—brought in as needed to help families reach fair, sustainable agreements. The goal is to reduce conflict, protect children, and allow both parties to move forward with dignity and respect. When Can Collaborative Law Be Used? Collaborative law can be applied to nearly all family law matters, including: Divorce and separation Child custody and parenting time Child support Spousal support (alimony) Property and asset division https://www.ldurstlaw.com/mediation daily 0.75 2025-11-06 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/b1090339-10c0-434b-b994-896c72daad19/child_custody.png Mediation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/f9354053-c901-4162-b87d-ffa4c5b49959/homepage_services4.png Mediation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/7615bdfc-be07-4643-bbbb-4e3c6ebab313/property_division.png Mediation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/acb3da20-99da-46b2-8d5c-7f4ac7427051/homepage_services.png Mediation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/9c77464a-4d36-4aba-9862-5a645d42492a/homepage_services2.png Mediation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/4ff3d4bf-bdeb-4de0-ab78-de38e3057c33/pexels-fernanda-de-freitas-1324064735-26448071.jpg Mediation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/2d4d51d4-03b4-4aa2-ae39-c5f74777dd8b/homepage_services3.png Mediation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/0a837ea9-883e-4dfe-b1d7-816a64544796/collablaw_page.png Mediation What Is Mediation? Mediation is a voluntary process where a neutral mediator helps parties discuss issues, share information, and explore solutions. The mediator does not decide for the parties but guides them toward mutually acceptable agreements. Attorney Li-Shann Durst focuses on resolving family law issues through mediation because it is often more responsive to families’ needs than litigation. Mediation promotes better communication, reduces conflict, and helps families make informed decisions. Family Law Matters That Can Be Mediated Almost any family law dispute can be mediated, including: Custody and parenting time Child support Spousal support Division of assets and debts Property settlement agreements Disputes involving grandparents or extended family ⚠️ Note: Mediation is not recommended in cases involving domestic violence or abuse. https://www.ldurstlaw.com/negotiation daily 0.75 2025-11-06 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/b1090339-10c0-434b-b994-896c72daad19/child_custody.png Negotiation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/f9354053-c901-4162-b87d-ffa4c5b49959/homepage_services4.png Negotiation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/7615bdfc-be07-4643-bbbb-4e3c6ebab313/property_division.png Negotiation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/acb3da20-99da-46b2-8d5c-7f4ac7427051/homepage_services.png Negotiation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/9c77464a-4d36-4aba-9862-5a645d42492a/homepage_services2.png Negotiation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/4ff3d4bf-bdeb-4de0-ab78-de38e3057c33/pexels-fernanda-de-freitas-1324064735-26448071.jpg Negotiation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/2d4d51d4-03b4-4aa2-ae39-c5f74777dd8b/homepage_services3.png Negotiation https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/a4fc30f9-0411-4385-a7d7-df3b58845624/negotiation1_page.png Negotiation What Is Negotiation in Family Law? Negotiation is one of the most common ways to resolve family law matters without going to trial. Most divorce cases settle through negotiation rather than litigation because it allows both parties more control over the outcome. Negotiation can occur in different forms: Both parties with attorneys – each spouse has independent legal counsel, and attorneys negotiate to reach settlement terms. One party with an attorney – the spouses negotiate between themselves, and the attorney drafts the agreement. Parties negotiating directly – spouses work out terms together, sometimes with outside guidance, and an attorney formalizes the agreement. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/da3a4e94-b554-40e6-8068-dda226c474ae/negotiation2_page.png Negotiation Why Negotiation Works In negotiation, each spouse typically has a list of priorities—some high, some low. Through compromise, both parties can often achieve their most important goals. Unlike a trial, where neither party may get what they want, negotiation provides more flexibility and control. Benefits of Negotiation: Keeps decision-making with the parties rather than a judge. Reduces costs and stress compared to litigation. Helps preserve relationships, especially important for co-parents. Provides quicker resolutions than court. 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An uncontested divorce occurs when both spouses ultimately reach an agreement on all key issues, including: Division of marital property and debts Child custody and parenting time Child support obligations Spousal support (if applicable) Few couples walk into an attorney’s office already in agreement. Reaching this point usually requires education, guidance, and skilled facilitation. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/8c79bd8d-4d24-412d-af22-ea8d9bb3f60e/About_page.png Uncontested Divorce in Virginia How an Attorney Helps You Reach an Agreement As your attorney, Li-Shann Durst can: Explain Virginia law and how it applies to your situation Provide perspective by sharing what a judge might do if your case went to court Offer creative options you may not have considered Work with other professionals — such as financial advisors or mental health specialists—when needed to address complex issues These tools help couples move from uncertainty and conflict to agreements that are both fair and legally sound. https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/680c87898d226a3a4bcb9366/acb3da20-99da-46b2-8d5c-7f4ac7427051/homepage_services.png Uncontested Divorce in Virginia - Benefits of an Uncontested Divorce When parties can reach agreement, the uncontested divorce process offers: Lower costs compared to contested litigation Faster resolution than trials Privacy—keeping sensitive details out of public court hearings Greater control over the outcome Eligibility Requirements in Virginia To finalize an uncontested divorce, Virginia law generally requires: At least one spouse to be a Virginia resident for six months before filing A separation period of one year, or six months if there are no minor children and a signed separation agreement A written marital settlement agreement or property settlement agreement resolving all issues